Thursday, December 31, 2009
Video from our friends
It was such a great visit - as I watched the video, I could remember each of the children and my own interactions with them. It made me want to share a little more broadly, so this is my forum. For all three of you who are looking, here's the video.
Wednesday, July 8, 2009
Temple Work

Shanlee and Megan didn't know what it meant, but Greg and I laughed and translated: This is the beer that inspires you to be better.

We had planned to return the car and then do baptisms on Thursday, but they don't do baptisms in the Santo Domingo Temple in the mornings - only in the evenings. So we went to the temple on Wednesday and planned to return the car on Thursday. We arrived at the temple at 6 p.m. to join a ward that was coming, but we found out they were not arriving until 6:30. So, we waited - and the ward never came.
At this point, we asked if we could do baptisms - just for Shanlee and Megan. This was apparently a big deal, because the worker over the baptistry had a hard time reconciling this. He said we needed four Melchizedek Priesthood holders. I pointed out that Greg and I hold this priesthood, and so does he, so we only need one more. It was funny, really - we found out later that they are used to groups of 25 or more, so to deal with a group of four was a big change.
What was fun was doing the baptisms and confirmations - Greg and I were able to perform the ordinances. We took turns doing confirmations first. We did five names at a time - and Greg took another opportunity to mock my Spanish accent. He gave me a hard time for the entire trip about my 'lisp.' In Spain, z's and soft c's are pronounced like a 'th.' In the rest of the Spanish-speaking world, they are pronounced like an 's,' so people who speak Castillian (Spain) Spanish sound like they have a lisp. It was all great fun.
The names we did confirmations for were people born in the early 1700's. We really enjoyed the sense of satisfaction in doing this work. We then moved into the baptismal font. It was beautiful - there was a marble border around the top of the font, similar to a capstone that extended around the top of the font. I went in and baptized Megan for about 12 people. Megan got out and went to get dried off, and they had Shanlee do a few more confirmations right next to the font. Then she got in and I baptized her for about 12 people. I gave both of them a hug after we finished the baptisms.
I was about to get out, but Brother Bautista had some names of his own that he wanted done, so Greg and I took turns being baptized - we did about 20 names in total. Then we got out of the font, and Brother Bautista sat on a stool next to the font while Greg and I did the confirmations for his ancestors. I've never done the confirmations right next to the font before. It was fun and different.
We spent some time taking pictures of the temple after dark. Megan wanted to get pictures of the shrubbery behind the temple, but it was too dark to see it. So we went back to our rooms and changed into some casual clothes. We drove to have dinner at Dominoes. I know that seems pretty lame, but it was great. Don't get me wrong - we LOVED the food we ate for a week. Still, this was like going home, and all three of us were a bit homesick by this point. We were all ready for the trip home!
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
The world's best hope
We stopped at one point and bought some bananas - they were really small, like half-sized bananas. Here is the stand we bought from, and the bananas hanging in the car.
We arrived in Santiago and Greg asked me to call Angelita, the administrator at Conani. Conani is a parent organization that runs orphanages in a few cities in the DR. I tried to explain who I was, but she kept yelling, "Who are you?!?" at me. As I tried, in vain, to explain that we had toys and books to donate, she hung up on me. Greg explained that this is common, because the only people that have your cell phone number here are people you know well, so she wanted to know who I was and how I got her number.
This is Shanlee sitting next to Francis:


Editor's note: at this point, we ran out of batteries for the camera. We'll be getting pictures from Rachel, but I have no additional pictures from today at this time. You can flog me when I get back on Friday.
Monday, July 6, 2009
Seeing the DREAM
And the street we walked down to the beach - typical Dominican streets:
This beach is here in Sosua - about a five-minute walk from their home. This beach has soft sand and amazingly clear water. I took this picture of Shanlee's legs in the water - even when you were out where you couldn't stand up, you could still see your feet. There were some fish close to shore - really small ones, but they would swim right up to your legs.
Shanlee and Megan tried snorkeling for the first time today. They both liked snorkeling, but didn't like getting salt-water in their mouths. They loved seeing the ocean floor. There was coral and some see weed growing that they both said 'looked neat.' They also tried free diving - Shanlee managed to stick her rear end out of the water; Megan was able to get down under about 2 feet.
After that, we came home, got cleaned up, and went to get some groceries, which we were getting pretty low on. Greg and I went to a store and got the necessary items. It was a very nice store - many typical American foods. We stuck with typical Dominican fare, but I was constantly amazed at the things they had in this store: Campbell's soups, a typical-looking dairy section with many brands of cheeses, butter, and even sour cream, a meat section with hot dogs and pepperoni, and a huge bread section with many options, including hot dog buns.Greg said this city has a section with homes starting at $1,000,000 and other areas where there are American and European residents. This group of residents demands certain foods, so this grocery store imports them. When we were leaving, I went to push the cart through the checkstand, and the bagger shook his head and pointed to the back of the checkstand - no words. I thought he was pointing to the next checkstand, so I tried to go through the next checkstand, only to get the same reponse from another bagger. I then figured out that they wanted me to leave the cart at the front of the checkstand. Greg later explained that most of their clientelle doesn't speak much, if any, Spanish, so most of them don't even try to speak.
We then had a papaya smoothie before leaving. That's some good...juice. Too bad we don't have many of these fruits so easily accessible at home - mangos, plantains, papaya, coconuts, and pineapple. They have so much fresh fruit here; I could easily get used to it - I think it took me about 1/2-day to get used to it.
At this point, we were off to Cabarete - the city we passed on the way to El Frances last Wednesday where they have the kite surfers. In this city is a school called the DREAM school. We went to church with some of the volunteers at this school yesterday. It was off the main road through Cabarete - back through dirt roads and past more very humble homes.
They also have a community library inside the school. This library is impressive - it is small compared to our libraries at home, but it has hundreds of books, and they have rules posted (be quiet, no running, etc.)
We discussed this school - it is very impressive, but its reach is no larger than Cabarete. This is great, but the Dennings want to bring books to people in Sosua, Puerta Plata, Cabarete, Nagua, Samana, El Frances, and many other places in the DR - not to mention other countries.
They have a summer school program that started yesterday - they had about 250 students. It is so neat to think of that many students in this school program. We brought about 15-20 books to donate to their library. The staff there was so excited - the director spent about five minutes paging through the books and kept saying how great they are. She thanked us many times for bringing them.
On the way out, Shanlee used her skills to find a piece of barbed wire laying on the ground. Impressive. So I went back into the school to get some first aid supplies so we could clean the cuts and put sterile bandages on them.
We went back to Sosua and went to the top of the condominium complex to see the view. Wow! Here are a few pictures.
Parker, Megan, Kimball, and Aaliyah:
The view of the bay - the same one we swam at this morning:
In the evening, Shanlee and Megan planned a party for the kids. They brough glow sticks, and when it was dark we all went out and swam in the pool with them on. The kids loved it. I have some video, but no pictures, yet. We'll have many more pictures later.
When we came back in, Shanlee and Megan shared Pop Rocks with the kids - another hit. They loved hearing the popping and looked at the camera with their mouths open so I could film them. It was really funny.
Sunday, July 5, 2009
Aaaaaaaaahhhhhh...relaxation!
In the chapel they had cieling fans running - lots of them. This was good to keep the air from becoming stagnant, and it helped cool us to a certain extent. It also left the room with a constant hum. Five weeks ago, the church was broken into and the computer, microphone, and other electronic equipment were stolen. So now we have tons of fans running and no microphone, so we could barely hear the speakers.
I was trying to translate for Shanlee, and I would catch a few words..."She says bad things happen."...then I would lose the sound. Was that the point of her talk? Nope - I heard her say the best thing we can do to bring ourselves peace is to forgive. Nice. Great point. I wish I could have heard better.
There was a group of students from BYU at church. They are here to work in the DREAM school. DREAM is an acronym - means Dominican Republic Education And Mentoring. They have a school we will be visiting tomorrow, and these students volunteer there. We will be taking some books there, too. These students were great - they took Megan and Shanlee to the Sunday School and Young Women's classes and translated for them. Pretty useful. Much better than sitting for two hours listening to "Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah." (That's Shanlee's interpretation of what Spanish sounds like.)
After church, we came home, made lunch, and everyone took una siesta. Except me, of course. I spent Sunday afternoon uploading pictures for all of you to see. I hope you appreciate the sacrifice I made to bring you images of the DR.
Shanlee and Megan also got online to check e-mail. It's been like going without water for them. I'm impressed they've done so well without the internet, e-mail, and facebook. By their own admission, what they miss most is their mom, sisters, and brother...and their beds...and friends...in that order. But other than that, they could live here.
We didn't take any pictures today, so here are a few more from previous days:
This fruit falls from a tree nearby and someone used it to make this flower:

Two men riding horses as we approached Playa del Rincon:

Someone in Rincon has an Iguana Reserve.
Build a shelf, fill it up
Today was another travel day. We had to go back to Sosúa, leaving El Frances, the Samaná Peninsula, and some new friends behind. The first thing we did was to take the remaining books to the school in El Frances. We filled the book shelf we had made and put it in the library. There were again a number of children who showed up to see what we were doing – they all wanted to see the bookshelf and the library.




One of the things they do is to save rain water. They have the rain gutter set up to empty into a large tank. This water is saved there for all of the people to use for washing clothes or for bathrooms. None of the people in these remote areas have running water, so they are resourceful in meeting their needs.
After we finished up at the school, we went ‘La Playa Colorado.’ We had to hike about ½ mile, across some sand and some sharp rocks. Once there, we played for about 45 minutes. Another beautiful beach with crystal clear water – more green towards the shore, but deep blue once you get into deeper water. We found some sand dollars and took some pictures of them in the sand. Then we hiked back up to the car and went to the condominium to pack up.

We then left to come back to Sosúa. On the way, we stopped at El Limón. This is a waterfall. We rented four horses and rode a path for about 15 minutes, then walked down some stairs made from rocks. The path reminded me of the path to the Lower Falls in Yellowstone National Park. The biggest difference was I felt more secure since I couldn’t see down into empty space through the steps.

We jumped in the water at the base of the falls – Greg climbed up a bit and jumped in, but I wasn’t so brave this time. He said it was slick – I decided not to tempt fate. We swam under the falls. The water was cool and very refreshing. Shanlee had a small problem trying to get out of the water – she fell back in. I didn’t laugh…very hard.
We then climbed back up to where the horses were waiting and rode back. On the way back, Aaliyah was riding with Megan, and she fell asleep. There is nothing more adorable than a sleeping child. See for yourself.

Kyah was riding on my horse behind me with her arms around my ample waist. We were almost back when my horse tripped and fell forward, throwing Kyah and I onto the ground to the left. I had my leg over the horse, but she stood up and left Kyah and I in a heap. I was doing everything I could to roll forward so I wasn’t laying on top of Kyah. The horse was bleeding on its front right leg, so I walked the rest of the way back.
At this point, it was 6:00 p.m., so we started back to Sosúa. We were near Samaná, so we had a pretty long drive ahead of us. We drove without stopping except when we were almost out of gas and very hungry. We hadn’t eaten dinner, and the 1/8th of a tank of gas wasn’t going to get us home. The problem was, it was 7:45 p.m., and the gas stations were closed. We passed station after station wondering if we would sleep in the car and get gas in the morning. The kids were hungry, as well. We passed a few small stores, but we were more worried about gas than food.
I think everyone was praying, because we passed a grocery store and just a few blocks later found an open gas station. We put enough gas in the car to last a few days, then went back and bought some food to eat.
The hardest part was driving in the dark. We passed tons of motorcycles with a headlight but no taillight. We couldn’t see them until we were right behind them. Then there were the cars coming towards us – their headlights were so bright that we were almost blinded and had to keep slowing down so we wouldn’t end up in a ditch or some oversized pothole. Because of this, ride took us awhile. We pulled into the condominium at Sosúa at about 9:30 p.m.
Friday, July 3, 2009
Painting the school

We did some really good work today. We got dirty, sweaty, and covered with paint. We started the day by going to the school in El Frances. As soon as we got there, we were surrounded by more than a dozen children. The children were anywhere from about 6 to about 12 or 13 years-old.
We went in and looked at the school. The sign in front of the school says ‘Escuela de El France.’ That’s interesting, because they omit many letters from their pronunciation of words here. Instead of saying ‘El Frances,’ they say ‘El France.’ When they make a sign, they spell the word as they pronounce it – without the ‘s.’

The school is a cement building with walls painted green and roof made of corrugated steel that is painted white. The entire school is about 20’ x 50’. It has two main rooms for instruction – this occupies the bulk of the building. The last section of the building is about 20’ x 10’ and is divided into two rooms. One is a larger room used for storage of supplies – and there’s not much of anything in the room. The room we will use for the library is about 10’ x 10’ – the size of a small bedroom in a typical home.


Shanlee and Megan worked with Rachel and the other children to rake leaves and debris to a corner of the school yard, then they cleaned up inside. They swept cobwebs off the walls and swept the floor. Then they started painting while Greg and I went to get wood for a book shelf. We bought a 14’ piece of 1’ x 8” wood. We walked it down the street to a man who has a power saw. He cut the wood into two 3’ pieces and four equally sized pieces (about 2’ each).
It is interesting that we all have simple construction materials in our homes. Almost every home in my neighborhood has hammers, saws, levels, and other basic tools. Here, there are maybe four people in the area that have saws. We found Pao – probably ‘Pablo,’ or Paul, pronounced without saying the ‘b’ and ‘l’. He had a small shack made from cinderblocks with the typical corrugated steel roof that had all of his tools – a saw, a drill press, and a router. Pao probably does a significant portion of woodwork for people in El Frances.
When we got back, we were amazed at what we saw. They had done some incredible painting using four partially filled 1 pint cans of paint (yellow, red, brown, and burgundy) and a gallon of white paint. With the help of the local kids, they had put hand-prints all over the walls and decorated around them. It looks very good and will be something the kids will always own. They had put a painting of the planet Jupiter on the wall, a butterfly, and words like grow (crecer), read (leer), and learn (aprender). On the door the had painted a sign with yellow stars that reads ‘Biblioteca,’ or library.




While they continued painting, Greg and I built the shelves. They are 3’ high with four 2’ shelves. Simple, small, and it will meet the needs of this small town. They will probably have a few dozen books on those shelves. Compared with the tens of thousands we have in our libraries, the thousands we have in a typical elementary school, or the hundreds we all have in our homes, it is a humbly-sized library – seemingly pathetic. But it is infinitely more than they have now.
The other thing about this morning was sweat. Shanlee and Megan said they were sweating while they painted – Shanlee said it looked like a teardrop in front of her eyes, but it was just sweat dripping off of her forehead. I was the same. I was hammering nails into the wood for the shelves – I was sweating before I’d done six nails.
Shanlee and Megan were talking to the kids outside. It was cool – even without knowing a common language, they were able to smile and say a few words. Shanlee was sitting with four or five kids and they were laughing. Shanlee was able to say things like ‘Sí,’ ‘No,’ and ‘Loco.’ It was funny. Kyah was helping Shanlee a bit, as well – Kyah speaks pretty decent Spanish.

One funny thing – Shanlee had a bunch of teenage boys asking her if she was married. Shanlee said, ‘Sí!’ They asked her if her husband was inside the school. Shanlee said, ‘Sí!’ They left, and Kyah asked if Shanlee knew what they had asked her. Shanlee said, ‘No!’ Kyah explained, and Shanlee decided that was probably better. They came back later and tried to convince Shanlee that she should give them a kiss. Shanlee decided her poor, jealous daddy couldn’t handle it and she said, ‘No.’ Smart girl.
We took everyone but Shanlee and Rachel home to get them cleaned up. Most of them had paint all over their hands. Cleaning that up is simple, right? Not. The paint was oil-based paint, so water is pretty inefficient. We got back to the condominium and Megan went down to the beach to see if salt-water would help. It did a little bit, but not enough. Greg talked to the guy in charge of security at these condominiums – his name is ‘Coco’ – and he brought us a cut-off two-liter bottle with some gasoline in it. Megan and the kids weren’t impressed with the smell, but it did the job.
Once they were all cleaned up, Greg went to get Rachel and Shanlee. They had painted squares of different colors all over the floor - reds, whites, and yellows. They were so covered in paint that they walked home so they wouldn’t get paint on the car. Once they were cleaned up, we just had leftover empanadas, rice, beans, some fresh flat-bread, and water for lunch. We still needed the paint to dry, so we are waiting to put the books in the library.
Instead, we went to Rincón (means corner) to see an American they know there. Her name is Cindy, and she is building a home on a beautiful hilltop with views of the ocean, the valley in Rincón, and the surrounding hills. But first, we decided to relax.
We went to Playa del Rincón (Beach of the Corner) and relaxed in the surf. The beach is at the end of a small bay. No 20’ waves, just the occasional 4’ wave to get salt-water in your mouth. Tasty! We played there for maybe 30 minutes, then went to a river that empties into the bay. The bay-water was nice and warm. The river water was significantly cooler. We had a good time.

Then we went to visit Cindy. As I described, her home is at the top of a hill. To get there, you have to take a one-lane dirt road that has nowhere to turn around. We drove up the hill for ¼ mile before we arrived at the gate to her home. The gate was made with round pieces of wood about 5’ high. They were bound together by wrapping them in barbed-wire and then leaving a line of about 12” to the next piece of wood. This made a fence of two parts, separated in the middle and set into the ground and bound with wire at the top to hold the two sides together while still allowing for them to be separated to provide access.
We walked up the hill to her home. She has at least four dogs. Every step closer, we saw another dog come around the corner and it would join the others in barking. Cindy wasn’t home, so we had to leave the books there along with a note on their origin. Down the hill from her home, Cindy is building a school for the children of Rincón. It is similar is size and construction to the one in El Frances. We left the books for her to use in this school.
The homes here are so humble. We would never consider living in these conditions. Most of their homes are so simple. They provide shelter and a covering, but none of the simplest conveniences that we enjoy - running water, toilets, carpeting, air conditioning. Those are all outside their grasp financially.



By this point, it was nearly 7 p.m., so we headed home. We passed a ‘killing tree.’ We didn’t know what that was. When they want to slaughter a cow for meat, they tie it to a killing tree – just a palm tree on the side of the road – that is close to the butcher’s shop. This is done on Friday afternoon. On Saturday morning, the meat will be hanging in the butcher’s shop, and by Saturday afternoon, the meat will all be purchased and gone. We had stopped to see the steer that was tied there, and the butcher smiled to us. He walked towards us, pointed to the steer, and then drew his hand across his throat to indicate that the steer would be killed. He had a great smile.


We also stopped to buy some fruit at a fruit stand in Rincón. It was pretty cool – the man there sold us two piñas (pineapples). He asked if we wanted them prepared for us, and we agreed. He took his knife and cut the sides off, cut it three ways down the center, then cut the pieces off into a plastic bag. It was pretty cool – and it was really good piña, too.

We arrived home just before 8 p.m. and had dinner – it was late enough that we decided to just finish off the leftovers. I think the one thing all three of us are struggling with is the temperature. It’s not so much that it’s hot, but it’s hot and humid and you always feel sticky. We’re never quite comfortable – or at least feeling like we do in the middle of the desert in Utah. Even at night, when it’s completely dark and it should be cool, it still feels muggy. I suspect it’s something you get used to. If we had more time here, we’d probably get used to it. In the few short days we’ve been here, we’re not used to it. It’s really just a minor irritant in a beautiful country.






